How do you have fun in marriage? Keeping the spice in your married life is important to making it last! Here are 10 ways you can keep the fun in marriage.

10 Ways to Keep the Fun in Marriage

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A couple of weeks ago I had the privilege of traveling with my husband while he attended a conference for work in beautiful Florida. I was able to go to a reception they held one night and we had a blast. They had everything from a s’mores bar and shaved pork tenderloin sandwiches to pictures with snakes, tarantulas and dancing.

As I was talking to one of my husband’s colleagues, he came over and took my arm and excitedly showed me a picture of him and his team holding a huge, menacing snake. “Come on, let’s go get one together,” he said.

It’s so important to have fun in your marriage.

“What!!?” No was my first thought.

I’m not holding a snake.

No way. No how. I’m not doing it!

His eyes were excited and eager, so off I went with him, thinking that surely I’d back out at the last-minute.

But, somehow I didn’t.

First, he had that excited little boy look on his face. You know the one. The one that husbands get when they get to do something that they would’ve done as a little boy.

Second, I didn’t want to disappoint him. And honestly, being with him, experiencing this “thing” was all I needed to say yes.

I was scared out of my mind yet it didn’t matter because it was for him.

He was so excited I could almost feel his heartbeat, and there was no way I was going to take this excitement from him.

So I stepped in front of the backdrop and I let the attendant put the snake around my neck and over my shoulders.

I don’t think I’ve ever shaken so much in my entire life. I literally shook for the whole 2 minutes it took to snap the picture.

I’ll never forget this memory of ours.

I can’t stress enough how important it is to have fun with your spouse, no matter how long you’ve been married.

Think back to your honeymoon and early years of marriage. Wasn’t it fun? The fun shouldn’t stop there!

In fact, the longer you are married, the more fun you should have. So, here are some ideas for ya!

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How do you have fun in marriage? Keeping the spice in your married life is important to making it last! Here are 10 ways you can keep the fun in marriage.

10 Ways to Keep the Fun in Marriage

  • Never stop experiencing new things together. When you go on that cruise, sign up for dance lessons. When you go on that beach vacation, rent some jet skis and take off.
  • Flirt. You know how to flirt. So, do it. This is one of my favorites.
  • Go on dates. Another one of my favorites. I love going to a quiet restaurant where we can talk. This is usually when we really catch up on what’s going on in each of our worlds and our daughter’s.
  • If possible, go on mini vacations together. If you husband travels, and it’s feasible, go with him. We’re just now able to do that because our girls are older.
  • Go to a concert, and dance. Get up and move yo’ body. This is so fun!
  • Go on a bike ride.
  • Watch a funny movie together. Laugh together!
  • Enroll for dance lessons together in your town.
  • Go on walks together, especially when it’s nice outside.
  • Find some favorite shows on TV and watch them together. Another fave of mine. I love doing this with John. It’s kind of our thing, and we make a big deal out of watching them “together.”

I’m so grateful for my husband.

We laugh, we have fun together and we live life to the fullest. We’ve learned to not take each other for granted and to cherish every moment as if they were the last.

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You will never regret creating fun memories with each other.

We’re memory makers.

Making memories with each other and our girls is a top priority.

When our girls were very young, someone told my husband to be purposeful in making memories, even if it meant spending money. It was one of the best pieces of advice we’ve ever been given.

Let’s be honest, marriage isn’t always laughter and roses.

It’s hard. Sometimes it’s really hard.

Sometimes you’ll want to give up.

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Don’t let it get to that point.

Have fun together on purpose.

Never, ever lose your sense of purpose in your marriage. I gave you some really great tips above, but sometimes having fun just means you shake things up a bit.

Go to the movies and buy that $10 bucket of popcorn and $5 cup of Dr. Pepper. Go to the yearly fair that comes to town even it means rubbing shoulders with those that may not have taken a bath in the last week or brushed their teeth. Sneak around the corner and try and scare him/her when they least expect it.

Experience new things and make traditions.

I’m always looking for new, fun things to do with John. I’d love to hear what you and your spouse do to have fun together. Share your tips below!

**You can check out more of the Building a Flourishing Marriage Series HERE.**

About the Author:

Shannon is fun-loving and authentic. She loves big and she loves fierce. At the top of that love list is Jesus, her husband John and her two daughters, Alex and Averee. She’s a woman who has been rescued and restored. She believes every woman has a calling and Shannon has a passion to see women everywhere rise up into who God has designed them to be. Although a book is in her future, you can currently read her blog at


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  1. I loved the great advice you’ve given here, Shannon and Alisa! This is such an important thing to remember! Nope, I’ve never regretted creating fun memories in my marriage. Your advice about making fun a priority is spot on.

  2. I love this, Shannon! I’m such a Type A person that fun sometimes has to be intentional for me. I think I’m getting better as I get older because you know…we care less what others think. My hubby and I love date nights and Netflix binges, or just taking walks…especially to get a donut or ice cream…cuz then you earned it! Thanks for sharing and to Alisa for hosting you!!

  3. Great post! We’re soaring torwards 4yrs! Though our marriage is still young we’ve been through aloooot already. God has kept us. This article is a very helpful reminder with a fresh perspective. We love watching movies together (especially a series like Pirates of the Caribbean i.e.) , having date night is a must, trying new restaurants, doing puzzles (baby asleep, a snack, good conversation and working together = fun). Our next addition will be bike rides! The possibilites truly are endless. My favorite part was never stop experiencing new things together. That’s my nugget for today. Thank you ladies 🙂

    1. Congrats, Ronnie!! Bikes is a great idea!! We may have to incorporate that into our fun as well.

  4. Great advice Shannon! you are braver than me with that snake, I’d have had my husband give me CPR because I’d have had a heart attack:)
    Visiting from #TestimonyTuesday

  5. Love these ideas, and it’s true that fun is so important for a vibrant, growing relationship. I love laughing together, taking time to talk and remember funny memories, or laughing over funny experiences we’ve had recently. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the busyness of life. We need to make time for fun!

  6. What a great post Shannon! It’s so important to experience the fun of life together and shake up the routine.

    1. Jennifer Ruibal says:

      My husband and I have always said “We literally have a blast doing nothing! “ Our sense of humors are so much alike and we literally
      Know what the other person is thinking 99% of the time and that makes us laugh so much! Very blessed to be married to my best friend. Thanks for all the ideas as well and I pray for each one of you ladies to have a wonderful happy and amazing marriage for all the years to come!

  7. Thanks Shannon and Alisa-great ideas here. One of the best things my husband suggested long ago was ‘date night’ and it was wonderful. We cannot let life separate us from those we love. Thanks for the great reminders!

  8. Great post, Shannon and Alisa! I am such a serious person, and I know my husband would appreciate more fun coming from me. Great reminder!

  9. These are awesome! There is nothing I like more than being with my husband. I love sitting on the deck after our girls are asleep and just laughing until I cry. 🙂

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